Permission to Eat

For me, the sensuality of food closely resembles the pleasures of sex. From the first bite of a good meal, the body is left in rapture until the last bite. A delicious morsel is as sweet as the first kiss. I believe any food with the right person can be sensual. Sensual food is simply food that is enticing to you and your lover, food that has the taste that nature gives it and is attractive to the eye and the hand and the tongue. When you feed your lover, try to feel all the love that has gone into growing this food.

We eat for selfish reasons - because it tastes good and is our fuel for staying alive. The better one eats, the better one feels. But nutrition from a healthy diet is not enough, even if it’s balanced and organic. We need nutrition beyond food. We need touch, too, for reproduction and love.

Food is love; sex is food. For me, the perfect diet is one where I eat well and have good sex. Food nourishes my body from the inside out, and sex feeds it from the outside in. I celebrate both food and the body.

From this lifelong love of good food, my desire to become a chef was born. My specialty is Cajun cuisine. Two years ago, I attended the Seattle Erotic Art Festival as a chef dressed in a black vinyl dress with a corset. A busty woman in a vinyl dress is enough to command the spotlight, but I also fed people by hand with my signature dish for the event.

After about a year of school, I started to rethink food. You know, not every woman tastes the same - different women, different tastes. Maybe I should create different flavored foods as well. So now, I use a line of ingredients from mild to extra spicy!

We are what we eat. We share our bodies and minds with others. Fresh ripe produce intertwined with sexual pleasure has been an image that has endured over time. Continue it. For your happiness and good health, continue to enjoy food and sex. There is nothing to be ashamed of – it is called the art of living. I give you permission to eat.